My excitement about the weekend to be spent with the BF was slightly tainted by the knowledge that I had to meet the new “LOVE”. Much as I love this crazy ho of mine, she sometimes manages to fall in love with the most silly little buggers. And since i liked the last one, but didn’t actually approve of him as her boyfriend, I was slightly sceptical when she told me about you in December.
My suspisions were slightly laid to rest by the things she said about you. You seemed to be working wonders on this woman, so I was in two minds when i set of to Dodgeville for my weekend at the BF.
I was pleasantly surprised by you. You got on well with her parents, you made an effort to get to know me for BF’s sake(thats a first), you bought both of us drinks all night, you have a calm demeanour, you’re independant, not clingy and she can leave you alone while dancing the night away with me, without worrying whether you’ll be Ok, or whether you’ll try and chat someone else up.
You understood her and managed to control her at the same time. Much like me, BF is a strongwilled young lady, who knows what she wants, is willing to fight for it and can sometimes try and sit on a guys head. You, other than all the other guys in her life, is not letting her control you. No wonder she’s so in love with you. You let her do pretty much what she wants, but you’re in control of the relationship…fabulous! You make her feel safe, and loved and cherished.
You weren’t even miffed that she didn’t see you all saturday because the two of us had arranged to do some retail therapy. You quite happily left early on saturday evening so the two of us could get on with our little evening of pampering and girly talk we’ve been planning for weeks. All in all….i’m impressed. And trust me, if you asked BF, she’d tell you that this is an amazing accomplishment, and that you’re also the very first BF love that managed to acquire this honour.
Before i run along and leave you to your carpentry and such, i have one last little piece of advice. Treat my friend with respect, love her and cherish her. Because if you break her heart i will kill you. I will find you and rip your toenails out and kill you slowly and painfully! That girl is like the sister i never had. If you hurt her, you hurt me too, so watch it!
On a more pleasant note, enjoy your week and treat BF on Valentine’s day you hear!